Relationship Advice With Mum?

For the longest time I can’t even remember when it started, I had a strong sexual attraction to my mother and I still do till this day. I have a girlfriend, she knows about this and sometimes she tells me to think of her when we have sex but for some reason the urges will not go away. I need to know why I have them or if she does too?

Answer:

Honey honey honey! First of all, this is far from normal, but there is counceling to help you with your thoughts.You are not crazy, dont ever think you are!! get some help before it goes too far. As for your girlfriend, she needs some serious help telling you to pretend she is mom. Tell her to go to hell!

Question: Cheated?

I’ve been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we are both in our mid-late twenties. He put me in a very vulnerable position early in relationship which I forgave him for and we worked through it. Last year I made a stupid mistake and cheated on him. I couldn’t tell him,a s I know it would completely devastate him and I also know he would never forgive me. So instead I broke up with him. This only made me realise how much I love him,so we got back together. Although I pushed it to the back of my mind over the last year, lately the guilt will not go away. In recent months we have really been getting on so well and he says he would like to marry me in the future. I feel the same. I would never cheat again. I don’t know whether to tell him after all this time, or stay quiet and consider it a lesson learned.

Advice: Relationships

Last summer i was seeing this guy. We fell hard for each other but we broke up in September because our relationship just didn’t feel right anymore. To make it easier for both of us we decided that we would just stay away from each other. But about a month ago we were at a party where we slept together. I just found out that I’m pregnant. What do I do?

Answer:

Well one, are you keeping the baby? ((and no i don’t mean the A word.. well i mean adoption.. the good A word))… and if you don’t know then think about it…

Also if you are keeping it, you need to do yourself a favor and tell the father that you’re having his child. Now think about if you want him in the childs life or not. He doesn’t have to be around or support it ((if you don’t want him to)) you can also ask him his opinion. It’s the best thing for you and him. And last you need to prepare yourself. Sit your friends and family members down with you and talk to them. Tell them you need their support and help ((if you need it)). Don’t hide, thats important, because you really won’t be able to hide it in a few months anyway lol… Hope this helps and i wish you the best of luck!